Getting divorced after 50 presents unique challenges that require a careful understanding of the financial, emotional, and legal factors at play. This stage of life, often referred to as “gray divorce,” brings distinct considerations that differ from those faced by younger couples. Our guide provides valuable insights and strategies to help individuals navigating divorce after 50 address these challenges and achieve the best possible outcome.
If you are a person who is over the age of fifty and considering a divorce there are factors for you to consider beyond those that younger persons would need to think about. What sort of considerations, you may be asking? The attorneys with the Law Office of Bryan Fagan, PLLC have identified the following as both relevant and extremely impactful examples.
Factors to Consider in a Divorce for Persons Over the Age of 50
1. Retirement Accounts
Two of our clients recently settled divorce cases where their spouse’s retirement accounts were central issues. One account was a military plan and the other was an IRA through a private company.
One client was able to leave mediation with a sizeable amount of the retirement plan awarded to her. Our other client was not as fortunate due to her not having been married to her spouse for long enough to qualify for benefits.
Texas is a community property State and contributions to a retirement account during the course of a marriage is typically classified as community property in a Texas marriage.
However, federal law on military requirements holds differently. An experienced family law attorney knows the difference in retirement plans and can advise you on what to expect out of your or your spouse’s retirement benefits.
2. Investment Income
Also known as “passive income”. Items that fall under this heading include dividends from stocks owned by either spouse and income from rental properties. Based on what the parties settle on or what a judge determines a just and equitable division, the money from investments is key to unraveling a divorce case.
3. Social Security Income
Though social security income does not fall under the normal rules associated with community property in Texas, this source of income still has an important role to play for divorcing parties over the age of fifty.
You can begin accessing these funds between the ages of 62 and 70. Eligibility to receive benefits based on your ex-spouse’s contributions to social security requires that you have been divorced for at least two years, not remarried, and fall within a specific age bracket.
4. Disability Income
A recent client of ours became disabled due to a car accident, suffering severe back injuries. Another client faced a similar situation, with severe back injuries from a car accident leading to disability.
This client wisely obtained a disability insurance policy. It now pays him and his family $9,000 monthly during his disability, as certified by an independent physician. However, in divorce cases, courts treat disability income like regular employment income, making it divisible.
These examples highlight how each divorce is unique. Long-term vision and experience in such cases distinguish Bryan Fagan, PLLC attorneys from others in Southeast Texas.
Our lawyers understand that in addition to the strictly financial aspects of a post-fifty-year-old divorce, there are health and well-being issues to contemplate as well.
Health as a Determining Factor in Divorce Asset Allocation
In Texas, courts require a minimum of ten years of marriage for a spouse to qualify for spousal support. When determining the equitable amount of spousal support, the court examines several factors, including the potential and actual earning capacities of both parties and their health.
A spouse who proves to the court that their earning potential is insufficient to support themselves and possibly their child stands a chance of receiving spousal support. If the spouse responsible for paying support has compromised health, the court may decide not to award spousal support.
Tips on How to Handle Your Post-fifty Divorce Case
What steps can a person over the age do to best ensure they are able to hit the ground running once their case is underway? Please consider the following:
Know what is going into your bank accounts and what is coming out
This may seem like common sense to the extreme but I can tell you all from experience that knowing how many bills a person and their family have is not a given in many marriages.
During the divorce, it is essential to learn where cutbacks in costs are needed. After a divorce, getting a tax professional and a financial expert in your corner can be incredibly helpful.
Keep open lines of communication with your family
Recently, the Law Office of Bryan Fagan, PLLC began representing a woman whose 43-year marriage was ending. This situation turned sadder when her adult children stopped communicating with her following the filing of the divorce paperwork.
Our client expressed to me how much her children mean to her, acknowledging the deep hurt caused by their parents’ divorce. In talking more with the client, however, I found that she was keeping information from her children about her motivations for the divorce. In this way, the kids felt isolated from their mother and naturally drifted to the parent who was able to discuss the case with more honesty.
Conclusion
Getting divorced after 50 requires careful planning and consideration of both financial and emotional aspects unique to this phase of life. By understanding the specific challenges and seeking expert guidance, individuals can navigate the complexities of gray divorce with confidence. With the right resources and support, you can ensure a smoother transition and secure a positive future post-divorce.
Experience, Dependability, and a Client-Driven Focus- Hallmarks of the Law Office of Bryan Fagan, PLLC
With a team of seven family law attorneys on board, the Law Office of Bryan Fagan, PLLC has the sort of “boots on the ground” experience that clients need and deserve in Texas.
Putting the interests of their client first (before themselves) is a necessity for attorneys but by placing our most sincere attention on the needs of our client, we are able to hone in on what it is that will ensure our client’s best opportunity to be successful in leading a post-divorce life. Please contact our office today for a free-of-charge consultation with one of our family law professionals.
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Bryan Fagan, a native of Atascocita, Texas, is a dedicated family law attorney inspired by John Grisham’s “The Pelican Brief.” He is the first lawyer in his family, which includes two adopted brothers. Bryan’s commitment to family is personal and professional; he cared for his grandmother with Alzheimer’s while completing his degree and attended the South Texas College of Law at night.
Married with three children, Bryan’s personal experiences enrich his understanding of family dynamics, which is central to his legal practice. He specializes in family law, offering innovative and efficient legal services. A certified member of the College of the State Bar of Texas, Bryan is part of an elite group of legal professionals committed to ongoing education and high-level expertise.
His legal practice covers divorce, custody disputes, property disputes, adoption, paternity, and mediation. Bryan is also experienced in drafting marital property agreements. He leads a team dedicated to complex family law cases and protecting families from false CPS allegations.
Based in Houston, Bryan is active in the Houston Family Law Sector of the Houston Bar Association and various family law groups in Texas. His deep understanding of family values and his professional dedication make him a compassionate advocate for families navigating Texas family law.