To navigate a Texas CPS visitation schedule effectively, create a detailed custody schedule calendar. This plan should outline how visits will benefit your child and family, ensuring clarity for yourself, your child, your family, CPS, and the court. As a newcomer to CPS cases, understanding the visitation process and managing expectations for both you and your child during these sessions is essential.
Part of navigating this process is deciding with CPS’s help what should and what should not happen before, during, and after these visits. Remember that you are not simply picking your child up from school, taking him for dinner, and going about your normal routine. Now that CPS is involved and a serious case has been filed with the courts, you have less freedom to interact with your child than before CPS entered your life. Avoid discussing the case, CPS’s role, when your child will return home, your opinions about your child’s foster family, and similar topics.
Establish goals in clear and concise language
If you have already been to court or have read through any of the documents provided to you by CPS, you are probably aware that legal language is not necessarily easy to understand. The subject matter itself isn’t rocket science, but the words used to describe the subject matter may as well be. This is why you need to ask CPS, and your attorney if you have one, to make sure the language utilized in any visitation planning is simple to understand. Non-lawyer language tends to work best for all parties involved.
Visitation is all about establishing some degree of normalcy during a CPS case, both for your child and for you. Your child may suffer harm if he or she cannot see you for long stretches of time. Therefore, a simple goal of visitation for your family might be to maintain your child’s emotional development by allowing for consistent visitation with you. While the visitation may start as supervised, your child wants to see you. The same goes for your child’s brothers and sisters who are not involved in the case. If possible, include a custody schedule calendar to facilitate visitation between the siblings and your child involved in the CPS case.
What are your expectations for visitation?
You and CPS need to work together to establish a reasonable custody schedule calendar and expectations for how these visitation sessions will go. Part of establishing expectations is going over what behaviors are not suitable to meet these expectations. Whether you know it or not, what you say and do can have long-lasting effects not only on your child’s well-being but also on the path that your CPS case takes.
How are you expected to act during a CPS visitation session? We need to answer the question right now before we go any further in this discussion. It may surprise you to learn that a CPS caseworker will supervise most of the visitation you are provided with at the beginning of your case. You will come to a CPS facility and have some space with your child, but the CPS employee will be able to observe how you interact with your child.
Since you will be watched this way, you need to know ahead of time how to conduct yourself. Some of these will seem like no-brainers to many of you, but I have learned practicing family law that many people and many families do not behave the same with children as others. I am not here to tell you how to behave in your personal life and have no preference for how you behave with your child- as long as your child is safe.
Here are some behaviors that I can point out to you that it would be worthwhile for you to keep in mind as you begin your visitation schedule with your child:
-do not fail to discipline your child just because CPS is observing.
Allowing your child to engage in bad behavior because you fear judgment for disciplining them is a poor choice. There is a fine line, of course, between proper and excessive discipline in some cases. Talk to your CPS caseworker beforehand about what is appropriate in terms of disciplining your child. Remember- that little boy or girl is your child, and you need to act that way. It is possible to discipline a child without involving physical means to do so.
-I can think of little else that would be worse for you than to come to a visitation session with your child after having just consumed alcohol or drugs.
You need to have a clear head and remain sober for the duration of your visitation session. You are provided relatively little time with your child during a CPS case, and you need to take advantage of every opportunity you get to spend time with him or her. Additionally, you likely face court orders prohibiting alcohol or drug use, and a court may require you to undergo drug or alcohol testing at any time.
-work with CPS before the first visitation session to establish what is not appropriate in terms of physical contact with language with your child.
Some parents have particular ways of interacting with their children that, for whatever reason, CPS does not deem to be appropriate in most cases. To put this CPS case in your rearview mirror, you must play the game by their rules. This means engaging in play and dialogue with your child that does not cross whatever lines that CPS has for you. Speak to them about this, or else you will probably never know what they have in mind
-come to the visitation session with clothes, toys, food, or anything else that you think is important to give to your child.
If you know that your child left your home without their winter coat and the weather is now getting chilly, it is smart to pack that ahead of time and be ready to go for the visitation session. Do not spend your last few minutes at home frantically packing these items, however. It is not a good excuse to show up late for your appointment because you were packing clothes for the kids
-speaking of showing up late for a visit, if you are running late or need to miss the visit for any reason, you need to call CPS as soon as possible.
You are expected to do everything possible to attend each of the brief visitation sessions that you receive. You are expected to do everything possible to attend each of the brief visitation sessions that you receive. However, emergencies come up, people get sick, and other issues arise that make it difficult for you to keep the appointment. All you can do in that case is call your CPS caseworker ahead of time to let them know. Do not fail to call and warn CPS. At this stage in your case, every aspect of your parenting is under scrutiny.
How will your visitation schedule be determined?
Part of the process of setting up visitation with your child during a CPS case is working around your and your child’s schedules. Depending on your work schedule, the schedule of your other kids, and the schedule of the CPS caseworker, you may need to get creative on how to craft a visitation schedule.
In addition to work, you likely have parenting classes and other required events that you need to attend and complete to meet your safety or service plan’s goals. CPS will take these responsibilities in addition to your child’s responsibilities as school, or extracurricular activities are concerned. The person who will be monitoring your visitation schedule has limits to how frequently he or she can administer these visitation meetings, as well.
Reviewing the visitation plan document
You will receive a visitation plan document that will remain in your child’s CPS case file for the duration of your case. It will list the persons with whom your child can see visitors who can be present with you during a visitation session. You, your spouse, your child’s siblings, and extended family are usually the extent of the people that you will be able to bring to the visitation session with you.
Each date, the length of the visit for that particular date, and the start/end times for each visitation session will be specified as well. I like the adage: to be unclear is to be unkind. Your caseworker is not doing you any favors by making your plan “flexible” or leaving wiggle room as far as how long a visitation can last. Work with the caseworker to get the specific language and start/stop times included in your plan. It will reduce the number of questions and misunderstandings that each party has concerning visitation issues.
Your visitation plan document should include specific details such as where the visitation sessions will take place, how supervision will be arranged, and the transportation logistics for you and your child. Spell out any logistical details you can think of to ensure clarity for both you and your child. Think hard ahead of time so that there are no issues that spring up that catch you all off guard.
Who will be included in these visits?
CPS will work with you and your family to assess what people in your child’s life have established a strong and significant bond with that child. Think of it this way- if your child could not see a certain person (Aunt, uncle, parent, grandparent, sibling), would their emotional development be harmed as a result? These are typically people that your child would see on a weekly, if not daily, basis. The cousin who would come by your house once every couple of months is probably not someone who falls into this category.
It is in your child’s best interests that he or she can maintain her relationship with persons like this. Include these individuals in any visitation planning you undertake with CPS. Even parents who have not played a role in this case thus far should receive consideration for visitation with your child. When CPS removes your child from your home and places them into temporary custody, they will likely make an effort to identify any absent parents. They will seek out anyone who can help build a better future for your child.
In conclusion, establishing a clear and detailed Texas CPS visitation schedule is paramount for ensuring the well-being and stability of both parents and children involved in CPS cases. By crafting a plan that outlines the benefits of visitation for the child and family, everyone—parents, children, extended family, CPS, and the court—can have a clear understanding of expectations and goals during visitation sessions. This proactive approach not only supports a smoother process but also fosters a positive environment that prioritizes the child’s best interests throughout the CPS case.
More CPS visitation essentials in tomorrow’s blog post.
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